The loss of a member of the armed forces that was at work is usually a traumatic event for the survivors. You do not expect to lose somebody in the bloom of your life even if you are assigned to a conflict zone. Or you can honor an elderly veteran who has given some of the best years of his life in the army. You and the other survivors will go through several phases of sorrow. You may find that a grief support group can help you.
sunanda deo